Friendship is a very valuable relation for all. Making a new friend in school, college, university or at work place is definitely worth as long as both of you are sailing on a smooth relation. A true friend will always stand by you both in good times and bad situations. In fact it is the responsibility of friendship to build a strong and healthy relationship. Particularly, in getting to know each other's interests, habits and in many other areas, a true bond is made for a life time.
A new friend must know about you, if it begins with a shake hand or by sharing your notes or by any other virtue, you must let out all about you and must share things honestly and voice your opinion candidly. Because, after all it is stated that conversations, opinions and discussions bring out best person in you. It works and earns a lot of self-respect and self-esteem. But just ensure that you are on the good side always.
Once both of you are together in a new friendship relation, it paves the way to take a long walk together and this is where you need to follow the 4 rules to permanently stay in your alliance.
RULE ONE: NEVER BOAST ABOUT YOURSELF OR WORKS
Understand and be very sensitive in your relation. Exaggerating on your performance or talking more excessively about yourself, will never do any good to your friend, but rather, it brings down the confidence level and soon you may stand at the risk of losing your new friend.
RULE TWO: STAY ON THE SIDE TO GIVE ALWAYS
Take an extra walk to help and never miss an opportunity to convey your greetings / gifts on an important occasion. They convey a lot more about you as it is often stated, actions speak better than words. So let your actions say more about your goodness and always lend a helping hand as it remains as an unforgettable memory. In this mode, on a steady pace, both of you lead a long-lasting peaceful companionship.
RULE THREE: ENJOY THE PRESENCE OF BEING TOGETHER
Never be harsh or hard in your communication. Instead, pick to choose a cordial talk where you can give more details or explain more about an issue or a situation. Share chocolates, sweets, go for a meal to a restaurant or share books or watch movies together. Be agreeable and never make arguments.
RULE FOUR: BE HELPFUL AND KIND AT HEART
By being good and kind at heart, you are actually endorsing the art of being nice to others always. That will impress a lot and it promotes you to win many more new friends. Money has a very minor role to play here whereas all that matters is how much you are sharing and how meritorious person you are to bestow.
As you are successful in winning a new friend, you are half-way through to win more friends. It works perfect for you as you have already gained expertise in saving a relation with new friend.
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